★ 4.8 · Loved by 12,000+ users

The people who matter
deserve more than
good intentions.

Whokin is a private relationship coach in your pocket. It tracks how warm or cold your real connections are, nudges you before they drift, and helps you show up — on your terms, on your schedule.

83%

of people feel they
don't stay in touch enough

15

meaningful relationships
most of us can sustain

0

data ever leaves
your device

Free forever plan available. No credit card required.

9:41 Whokin ●●●

Your Pulse

3 need attention

M
🔥

Mom

2 days ago · 7d cadence

WARM
S
🌤️

Sarah

⚡ Reach out today

COOLING
B
❄️

Ben

12 days overdue

COLD
🎂

Dad's birthday in 2 days

Tap to log an interaction →

Home
History
Kins

✨ AI Catch-up ready

for Sarah

🔒 100% on-device

no data shared ever

12,000+

Active users

★ 4.8

App Store rating

340k+

Interactions logged

40+

Countries

0 bytes

Data on our servers (Free plan)

The Problem

You care. Life just gets in the way.

You didn't mean to go six months without calling your best friend from college. You meant to text your mentor after that big win. You said you'd check in on your aunt more. But your phone is a fire hose of notifications — and the people you love get pushed to "later." Whokin turns "later" into "right now."

😬

Social debt piles up

You know you owe someone a call. But the longer you wait, the harder it feels to reach out. Whokin resets the weight.

📱

Your contacts app is useless

1,400 contacts and no idea who you last spoke to or when. Whokin shows you the 15 people who actually need attention right now.

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Important people fade away

Research shows friendships that aren't actively maintained dissolve within 3 months of no contact. Whokin is an early warning system.

How it works

Set it up in 3 minutes. Use it forever.

1

Add your Kins

Import from contacts or add manually. Set how often you want to stay in touch — weekly, monthly, whatever fits your life.

2

Whokin tracks the pulse

Every relationship gets a live health score — Warm, Cooling, or Cold. Log interactions with a tap. The app does the rest.

3

Reach out, stay warm

Get a gentle nudge before things go cold. One-tap call, text, or email. Log it, and watch your pulse score climb.

Features

Everything you need. Nothing you don't.

Built for real people — not power-networkers. Every feature exists to help you feel less guilty and more connected.

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Relationship Pulse™

Each relationship is color-coded by health: Warm (active), Cooling (needs attention), Cold (overdue). See the truth at a glance.

🟢 WARM 🟡 COOLING 🔵 COLD

AI Catch-Up Coach

Before you call, tap Catch-Up. The AI refreshes your memory — last conversation topics, birthdays, preferences, things they shared — so you never start cold.

Pro feature
🧠

AI Memory Extraction

Jot raw notes after a call. The AI automatically extracts key facts, preferences, and milestones and stores them under the right kin — privately, on your device.

Pro feature
⏱️

Custom Cadences

Set how often each person deserves contact — weekly for your partner, monthly for an old colleague, quarterly for distant family. Whokin tracks it all.

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Birthday Intelligence

Not just a notification. Whokin surfaces the birthday 7 days early, reminds you to reach out, and auto-logs the interaction when you do.

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Collaborative Kin

Share a kin with a partner or sibling. When one of you calls Grandma, the pulse updates for everyone. Finally, family coordination without the group chat drama.

AI+ feature

Priority Dashboard

Star the people who matter most. Your priority list surfaces anyone who needs attention first — no scrolling, no guessing.

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Encrypted Cloud Backup

Zero-knowledge backup synced across your devices. Your data is end-to-end encrypted before it ever leaves your phone — we literally can't read it.

AI+ feature
💤

Dormant Mode

Temporarily park kins you can't reach right now (travelling, estranged, busy season). No guilt. No notifications. Reactivate with one tap when the time is right.

Real Stories

People are saying things like…

★★★★★

"I used to feel constant low-grade anxiety about the people I wasn't keeping up with. Whokin turned that into a simple list. I now call my dad every Sunday without fail. That alone is worth everything."

J

James R.

Software engineer, London

★★★★★

"My sister and I share a 'Grandma' kin. She's 84. When one of us visits, it logs automatically for both of us. We stopped having the 'but I thought YOU called her' argument completely."

A

Amara O.

Teacher, Lagos

★★★★★

"The AI Catch-Up is like magic. Before I called my mentor for the first time in 4 months, it reminded me she'd just moved to Barcelona and was learning ceramics. That call was the best one we'd had in years."

M

Maya L.

Founder, Toronto

Pricing

Start free. Upgrade when you're ready.

The core app is free forever. Upgrade to Pro or AI+ when your circle grows or you want the full AI experience.

Starter

$0 / forever

Perfect for keeping your closest circle warm. No credit card, no expiry.

  • Up to 10 active kins
  • Relationship Pulse™ tracking
  • Interaction logging
  • Birthday reminders
  • 100% on-device — fully private
  • AI Catch-Up Coach
  • Cloud backup
Download Free
Most Popular

Pro

$4.99 / month

or $39.99/year — save $19.89

Everything in Free, plus AI coaching tools and unlimited relationships.

  • Unlimited active kins
  • Priority Dashboard (VIP circle)
  • AI Catch-Up Coach
  • 🧠 AI Memory Extraction
  • Advanced notes & memories
  • Custom interaction types
  • Cloud backup & sync
Start Pro — 7-day free trial

Cancel anytime, no questions asked

Full AI Experience

AI+

$9.99 / month

or $79.99/year — save $39.89

Everything in Pro, plus cloud sync, multi-device and collaborative kin management.

  • Everything in Pro
  • ☁️ Encrypted cloud backup
  • Multi-device sync
  • 👨‍👩‍👧 Collaborative Kin (shared pulse)
  • Zero-knowledge encryption
  • Priority support
  • Early access to new features
Start AI+ — 7-day free trial

Cancel anytime

What counts as an "active kin"?

Anyone you're actively tracking. Dormant kins don't count toward your limit — park them guilt-free and reactivate later.

Can I switch plans later?

Yes. Upgrade, downgrade, or cancel at any time from the app settings. Prorated refunds on annual plans.

Is there a family plan?

The AI+ Collaborative Kin feature effectively lets families share relationship tracking. A dedicated family plan is on the roadmap.

Privacy-first

Your relationships are yours. Full stop.

We built Whokin because we wanted to use it ourselves — and we weren't willing to give a tech company our most personal data in exchange. The Free and Pro plans run entirely on your device. No data ever leaves your phone. Not your names, not your notes, not your AI memories.

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On-Device AI (Free & Pro)

All AI processing runs locally using Apple's on-device ML framework. Nothing is sent to any server.

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Zero-Knowledge Cloud (AI+)

When you opt into cloud backup, your data is encrypted with your own key before it ever touches our servers. We cannot read it.

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No Ads. Ever.

We make money from subscriptions, not attention. Your data is never used for ads or sold to third parties.

Our Privacy Promises

No cloud logs (Free/Pro)
Local AI processing
Zero-knowledge backups (AI+)
No advertising, ever
Data sold to third parties

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The people you love
are waiting for you.

Download Whokin for free and add your first 10 kins in under 3 minutes. No credit card. No data harvesting. Just warmer relationships.

Free forever plan · Pro from $4.99/mo · AI+ from $9.99/mo